My on again/off again boyfriend of over a year CONSTANTLY gives me mixed signals and always has. One day/week, he'll tell me he loves me, will be all lovey dovey and will talk about our future together. If the slightest thing goes wrong (and I always feel like I'm the one doing everything wrong) he shuts off, and won't talk to me. He won't answer my calls or respond to my texts. Then usually days later, he'll send me a random text, saying something just random, (like..."i bought this yesterday" or "what are you doing") text messages, and will act like nothing happened, and then we'll usually meet up with each other, and repeat the whole cyle over and over again! I do not feel emotionally close to him anymore because of this. Somedays he makes me so happy, and is everything I want in a guy, all the other times he shows me just how much he DOESN'T care about me. I can't win in the situation. I hate it. I'm so upset. I would bend over backwards for this guy, but he never shows me he cares
2007-10-26
16:08:21
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