i was with my girlfriend for like two months....she was bi and i was cool with that.....well she ended up telling me shes not bi anymore thats shes lesbian....she was like your everything a girl wants and needs but i cant make myself love you....she said she does not get the same feeling with me then with her ex which was a female... were still really good friends that talk everyday and well when i was with her i got close to her best friend....and now well i like her best friend and can see something good working out between us...i already told my ex's best friend how i feel she cant get over the fact that i dated her best friend...she said if only we could of dated b4 you dated my best friend ....she says its too weird she couldn't do it....what do ya think should i talk to my ex and tell her how i feel?? and do ya think its ok???
2007-10-26 16:09:29 · 9 answers · asked by john doe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not? it can't hurt....but didn't the girl you like already say no?
2007-10-26 16:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Nifty_250 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, talk to your ex about your feelings for her friend. If she is ok with it and gicves her blessing, explain to the friend the ex's feelings on it. But I think it would be too weird a situation to be in and would forget about the friend lol.
2007-10-26 16:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by amythys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
John, I predict that your love life will be an unhappy one. Try hanging out with some more straightforward people, and learning to enjoy the better things in life.
Steer clear of sexual confusion, tattoos, body piercing, orange/purple hair, and other oddities. If weird stuff attracts you, expect trouble.
2007-10-26 16:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by aviophage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why shouldn't you be free to date whomever you want! You don't have to get anyone Else's OK on who to go out with, you go out with whomever you like & that's YOUR business. I wouldn't ask an ex anything about who I should or should not date. That's none of her business, it's yours. Do what YOU want.
2007-10-26 16:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hah. same thing happened to me, 'cept i havn't talked to my ex in several months and i don't like any of her best friends. hah.
Anywho, if your ex can break up with you because she turned lesbian, I don't think she'd be offended if you liked her friend..and if she is..pshhhh.
2007-10-26 16:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sam-Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you ex is ok with your ating her then make the move but if she objects then leave it alone.
2007-10-26 16:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe your ex likes her best friend...
SCANDALOUS! XD
2007-10-26 16:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bummer
2007-10-26 16:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by 4 strings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 way......very nice
2007-10-26 16:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋