A gentlemen called me to ask if it would be ok for him to call me sometime to go to lunch or a movie. I know this person from church, and he knows my situation; was married for 17 years and then widowed, with two young children. Anyway, I told him he could call sometime. Well, I don't know what I would talk about! Surely he doesn't want to hear about my late husband, maybe a little on the kids, but for so long my life was with husband and kids, and I'm not sure how to get past that and have an adult conversation with a nice man. I'm more worried about conversation than kissing him. We live in a small town and anywhere we went someone I know would see us, and then I have to worry about the "date" being all around town, then I would have to deal with that gossip. My dearest friend is happy for me. I was just taken by surprise. When you eat with two boys every night, the discussions turn a little gross and strange noises are made. All new to me.
2007-10-24
01:16:53
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