My husband adopted my daughter 2 years ago. His own parents are divorced and his Dad was super supportive of the adoption, while his mother protested it-saying he shouldn't tie up the rest of his life on someone else's kid.
Two years have gone by and how his mother has grown to love my daughter and apologized for everything she ever said. She and I are getting along much better.
Then, out of the blue, I get a phone call from his dad (who was supportive) asking me if I divorced my husband, does the adoption mean he'd be liable for child support.
I'm hurt, because stuff like that shouldn't matter. I mentioned it to my husband who talked to his dad and told him he would expect to pay child support if we ever split up (Big if) because he's her Daddy now.
I'm so hurt that his family goes back and forth on their feelings about my daughter. Short of cutting off all contact, what can I do for her and myself?
2007-10-08
04:08:25
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