I am in my late 30's and married for almost four years. A few nights ago, my husband let me know he wanted a little action before turning in for the evening. No problem there. After I got out of the shower, I went to bed. My husband followed with his own shower. But he didn't come straight to bed. He showed up a short time later already sporting an erection. He had gone to computer to look at porn before he came to bed to me. He tried to hide his erection as he got in bed. I don't care if my husband looks at porn, but he made me feel like I couldn't get the job done and I was just a fill in for whomever he was looking at on the computer. Did he think I wouldn't notice? Do I have a valid right to feel put out over this? If this man is going to have to look at porn to get excited enough to have sex with me, I don't want him. By the way, I am in excellant shape, no kids, college educated...it is not a case of me letting myself go. Should I be concerned or just get over it?
2007-10-08
04:38:02
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Jane
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Marriage & Divorce