About a year ago I joined a self help group, and after a few months a guy who I realy like asked me out, but he was still seeing someone, I was upset because I wanted to date him but not hidden on the side I told him so in fact I really lost it with him.
Then I felt realy bad. Over time we became friendlier I knew he had broken up with his girl friend so I asked him for a kiss he said no but then a few weeks later he asked me for a kiss , he came to my house a few times and we had sex. Then I started to want a little more, to go out, to spend a night together to get closer. he started backing off and I started to feel anxious and insecure and defensive and I landed up saying some things I regret, I told him maybe we should be just friends and he said he had wanted that for a long time but didn´t want to hurt me. Now 2weeks later has given a job to a girlfriend a new woman. We never went out, out and it only lasted a few weeks. He´s still friendly but I´m realy hurt .
2007-10-07
16:55:32
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