Some back story: My mother has always been around to provide for me my entire life however during that time she has berated me for being who I am, talked down to me, kicked me out of the house, called me names and put me down on my looks. There were times it go so bad I considered suicide rather than living at home. When I was 19 she completed credit card offers in my name and charged 8K of debt that I have just paid off.
I finally got the nerve to pack all my things and leave 4 years ago. After moving out I was able to build up my confidence, get my own job and apartment with by boyfriend. I have slowly tried to rebuild my relationship with my mother but usually she just asks me for money.
Just recently my mom has taken ill. She is currently recovering and would like me to move in and take care of her...indefinitely. I absolutely do not want to move back in with her but I am guiltridden by saying no.
What should I do?
2007-10-06
16:10:54
·
37 answers
·
asked by
Kai
1
in
Family