After a 2 yr affair, he decides he wants to be with his "new love".. (he was never forced to leave his wife) he leaves his home, (to his own place); after 1 yr 6 months, when the time came to move in together, I told him I was not going to live with a married man. Instead of filling for divorce he convinentlly decides he wants to ask his wife for forgiveness and wants to make his marriage work. How can it work after he left for 18 months to be with someone else? At this point I should mention that the only problem in our relationship was that, eventhough he was not living with her and she knew he was in-love or "infatuated" with another woman, she also knew he had been cheating on her since high school (with other girls-women) anyway, they kept having sex every chance they had. I mean I guess bottom line here is: Why did he leave his wife if deep down he knew he didn't want anything serious with me? why put his family through so much pain for no reason at all!!
2007-10-05
11:21:48
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MaryCoronel74
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Marriage & Divorce