Noone has that perfect spouse, my husband doesn't do drugs, is not abusive, doesn't hang out all night he just goes out with me and the boys, 1 & 5, he's a hard worker, does the housework , even more of it than I do, takes care of the boys, diapers, baths etc. I work part-time he works full-time. However, I cannot say say we are the best of friends. In fact we have the worst of fights some time. Our personalities clash., We both have tempers, however mine is worse. Whatever he does I do 10 fold. I tend to be verbally abusive, but only if he does something to really hurt me. He's not so much unless I hit him. Don't get me wrong sometimes we do have happy times my husband gets over things quicker & is very affectionate sometimes overly, but when it gets bad it gets bad. I tend to, use info that I have on him against him,like something from the past, so I make sure that I don't tell him everything so he won't use it against me. Please no mean answers we ARE in counselling.
2007-09-05
02:28:06
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Marriage & Divorce