We are now engaged, we also have a 3 year old. He has had limited contact with the mother during pregnancy and only a few emails since the baby was born, a dna test proved he was the father. We live 3 hrs from the mother and haven't seen the baby, we have a consultation with a lawyer for visitation. The mother is pushing hard for him and his family, whom she has never met to come see the baby. He wants no contact with the mother, but is willing to see the baby, even though he thinks it would be better to just sign over the rights to the child instead of passing him back and forth and having to deal with the mother. What do you think is best for the child. The act was a mistake and there was no relationship between the parents. Should we be involved in his life, how often, or just sign him over and let her other sons father adopt him. we want to do whats best for the baby and our family too, me him and our daughter. He is very torn
2007-06-28
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