Corresponded with a great guy for several months and totally fell for him. I am a big girl and was up front with him about my weight. He told me he was overweight, too, and wanted to lose about 25lbs before we met. He fell hard for me, too, and came to town to interview for a job here, about 8 hours drive from his home. We were both expecting great things, but when I opened the hotel room door, I thought I had the wrong room. He was about 100lbs overweight. I had told him I like men with a little belly and love handles, but DAMN, that was not what I was expecting. I now feel like a superficial creep because I have NO interest in him physically and don't want to pursue the relationship. He knows we didn't 'click' but doesn't know why. Do I need to let him know or save his feelings and just tell him there was no chemistry?
2007-06-25
21:58:55
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Gr8estluv
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Singles & Dating