Most of the time I am a secure, well adjusted person. I have been married 20+ years. But sometimes I find myself depending on him for my happiness. If he is in a bad mood, I want to find out why, and I feed off his bad mood and get depressed myself, because he is so distracted. If he is not paying enough attention to me, doesn't call, fails to notice something nice I've done, I start feeling insecure again, doubting his love etc. Then I will go for a spell and feel fine, but it all seems to be in his reaction to me. How can I break out of this cycle and be more secure?
2007-06-05
10:28:21
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casey308
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Marriage & Divorce