2007-06-05 10:25:36 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, just bad judgement on her part. If she is an idiot what about the man who helped her get those kids?
2007-06-05 10:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Honestly if everyone waited until they could completely afford to have kids, a lot less people would be having babies. Kids and budgeting come hand and hand and sometimes situations arise where you are short on cash, doesn't make them an idiot. What if your car dies and you need a new one, otherwise you'll have no job. Life is unpredictable and stuff just kinda happens. Also you gotta think, is the father supporting those babies? Hell I have 3 with one on the way and 2 of them are from my x and he doesn't support them worth a damn, my husband and I still make it through. I think sometimes people mess up there priorities and send money on the wrong things, like cigarettes for themselves instead of clothes that actually fit there kids, or the people that make sure they have their Dunkin Donuts everyday but there kids don't eat right. Like I said doesn't make them an idiot just makes them someone that needs to work harder to support what they have created.
2007-06-13 06:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sirena609 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not possible to answer this question without more facts.
If the woman has three or four kids with three or four different men and has been reckless and failed to use birth control, then yes, she is an idiot.
If the woman was married and had three or four kids and the husband abandoned her, she is not necessarily an idiot unless she ignored several red flags along the way and chose to stay with a man who was showing signs of not taking care of his responsibilities.
2007-06-05 10:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Marianimal 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If this was a married woman and she and her spouse had an agreement that she would sta home and he would provide,but fell shoort,than no.But if she is a statistic YES!The illinois welfare system is the worst,I have a cousin with 5 kids 37 years old,never worked a day in her life and no she is not disabled.She chooses to stay home and do nothing.All of her kids are failing,one gets arrested,the other pregnant,one is promiscuos.And thats the good part.If us taxpayers,so happen to have an excessive amount of bills and fall short on grocery money,thay want to question the ones you are taking care of the ones who are losers
2007-06-12 06:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she kept having kids and didn't have a father that was gonna help raise them, then yes. 1 is a mistake, 2 is irresponsible, 3 is crazy, 4 you're an idiot. If you are or was in a marriage that has ended... that's a different story.
2007-06-12 00:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think the guy who knocked her up and doesn't support the kids is an idiot. It's a two way street and they are both to blame. I would say she should have been smarter than that but I wouldn't go so far as to call her an idiot.
2007-06-05 10:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by MeMe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, why would you think that? are you saying that she had these kids knowing she couldn't afford them at the time she allowed herself to get pregnant? If this is the case I wouldn't call her an idiot I would call her uneducated and well I guess I would have to say she was stupid for bringing these poor children into this world with no way of supporting them, So I would have to agree, I really didn't want to agree but hey,when your right you are right and you actually hit the nail on the head.
2007-06-11 14:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the situation she was in when she got pregnant. If she was married and her hubby told her he would take care of her and the kids, why would she be an idiot? If the woman never got married, but kept having kids anyway, then yes, she is an idiot!
2007-06-10 03:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends. Is she divorced and is having trouble since? Or is she sitting at home popping out babies to up her monthly food stamp allowance or simply just not taking care of herself and allowing herself to keep getting pregnant?
If she keeps having kids despite not being able to take care of the ones she has, then yes she is an idiot. If she is struggling and *trying* to take care of hers, then no, she's just down on her luck.
2007-06-05 10:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by Emmy F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation, if she keeps having babies w/ no job and no future w/ different daddies, she's a loser. Now if she's in or has been in a normal relationship and the man is just a dog and left her he's the idiot.
2007-06-11 11:11:19 · answer #10 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋