I am in my late twenties and have been married for 5 years, but seperated for awhile. My husband was supposed to be moving back in at the end of this month, and he told me last night that he wasn't completely sure he was in love with me. He said 75% sure, 25% unsure. He wants to postpone moving in even longer, but even though he doesn't know for sure, he wants to continue with the relationship. He said he wants to "honor his commitment to me". I do know he loves me, and he isn't having an affair. I am not worried about that. He said he has been questioning this the last 4-6 weeks, as the "deadline" of moving in gets closer. I think he has "cold feet" so to speak. He was shifted around a lot as a child, and he doesn't want to risk moving in if even an ounce of him thinks it may not work. He is terribly afraid of failure - not just in our relationship. I am not changing myself, and I know everyone is different, but what qualities do women have that men fall in love with?
2007-05-20
07:27:34
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