All categories - 12 May 2007

With all the cheating and extramarital affairs going on, I want to be sure my bf feels free to tell me about all relationships he has with other women. He had one one serious relationship before me, he want's us to marry, but I feel he hasn't really "been there done it" with other women and I'm afraid that one day he will "discover" women and leave me. (forbidden fruit syndrome) I told him it's OK if he wants to sleep with other women so long as he lets me know. He got upset and said that if I loved him I wouldn't suggest that and that being with another women my cause him to stray from me. If he hasn't been with other women how's he know im the 1? Do you think it's risky to marry a man with so little "experiance." Or is it riskier to let him have other women too? I love him deeply and don't want to loose him. Am I just paranoid? Help, PLEASE.

2007-05-12 19:05:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cant see the people but i stare at them anyway to me they're there and they're real. I talk to them and they answer. I have a girls voice, it could be my own, but i talk to her alot. Sometimes its other people, like interviewers i do have fantasys of being famous and the interviewer will ask me questions about my pretend work and i answer. the interview could go on for about an hour without me realising theres no one there, then i stop it. people say that when the voices start replying your in trouble but i have full blown conversations. I have been in therapy most of my life because of a car accident which left me with depression, insomnia, no self esteem and mild paranoir, i am still in therapy for most of these though ive never mentioned the voices because im afraid of the results. I dont want to be labeled insane, the voices never upset me or tell me to do anything stupid its just general conversation most of the time .In all honesty shall i tell? help please

2007-05-12 19:05:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

2007-05-12 19:05:19 · 9 answers · asked by mat p 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Would that turn you off? Is is better to bring up the fact you are a single father from the very start as I have done prior (I believe honesty is the best policy) or wait until later to let a woman know? I ask because the fact I have a 5 year old was described by one woman as "too much drama" she did not say that to me but to others I know. I get the impression from the questions and answers I have read that nice, stable men are not what most women seem to want, (sorry but read some of the posts on here and that is what it seems like) and having a child seems to make me less in demand. I ask the question to see if that is the general feeling with women or have I just been unlucky with those I have met? Please be honest with your answers. Thanks!!

2007-05-12 19:04:49 · 8 answers · asked by Spartacus34 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm a guy and my friend never tells any of his friends if something is bothering him. Everytime we ask, he just says he's tired and didn't get enough sleep. I've talked to him and he's shared a little with me, but not much. I get worried about him because I'm afraid he's going to bottle everything up and its going to overwhelm him one day. It happened to me and I don't want to see him go through that. I've told him multiple times that I'm there for him and that I would like it if he came to me if he needed to talk. I wonder if he just has trouble talking about his feelings. We have a group of about 9 or 10 close knit friends and none of us know him that well. Maybe I'm worrying too much and there's nothing wrong with him, but there are times when it's kind of obvious. He's told me about times where he was upset so he screamed into his pillow. I told him it's better to go to a person, he said he knew that but his pillow works fine. He said he'd come to me next time, but I doubt it.

2007-05-12 19:04:28 · 9 answers · asked by Kendo 2 in Friends

2007-05-12 19:04:12 · 17 answers · asked by superman 1 in Security

In December, I got back together with a boyfriend who cheated, so I already have trust problems with him. One of the conditions was that we have 100% honesty, and he's been doing pretty well with it, 'til tonight. Of all things, he lied about how many drinks he'd had before driving home. (He's underage, but it would upset me even if he weren't.) It's not a huge deal, but a lie is a lie is a lie. I feel like he's testing the waters to see how much I'll put up with. I told him tonight if he lies again, even about a small thing, I'm out of here. But is asking for 100% honesty asking too much? I'm talking about when he lies on purpose- I can tell if it's just a mistake. I've gotten over alot to salvage this relationship, so maybe this is minor. But I also feel like after everything, I shouldn't have to overcome even more of the petty behavior. We've been together 2 1/2 years, he's always had truth problems. Are there "small" lies, and are they dealbreakers?

2007-05-12 19:03:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-12 19:03:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Pets

why is that when someone says their only looking for a sex partner someone always get their feelings into it? i had a friend who said she was cool with just getting it in but as soon as i tried to stop the sexually relationship (BECAUSE I HAD FEELINGS FOR ANOTHER GIRL N I TOLD HER) she tried to break up my relationship

2007-05-12 19:03:13 · 21 answers · asked by shitown0567 1 in Singles & Dating

I heard it costs around $50 and was wondering if it was true.

2007-05-12 19:03:12 · 6 answers · asked by Child of the Fox 1 in Japan

I am familiar with point source/non-point source contaminations; but is there any correlations between wastes found in landfills, and global warming?

Are there any other dilemmas related to waste disposal?

2007-05-12 19:03:08 · 2 answers · asked by hernandeza03 2 in Earth Sciences & Geology

I need to know some breakfasts that are really easy to make. Like really basic and easy. No, I don't mean like cereal... something that you actually make that doesn't take very long. Something that tastes good.

If you could give me a recipe or instructions, that would be great.

2007-05-12 19:02:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Food & Drink

Is there any better way to teach our kids empathy and compassion than the nightly routine of "and last of all god bless me"?

2007-05-12 19:02:45 · 14 answers · asked by jinjalina 2 in Religion & Spirituality

Is it a good thing to burn alot of calories?

im 12 almost 13

How many calories should i be eating
Though, I burn atleast 800 calories aday

But is it good to burn alot of calories?????

2007-05-12 19:02:39 · 5 answers · asked by DunAskMe 1 in Diet & Fitness

i want to lose 40 pounds or more

2007-05-12 19:02:30 · 4 answers · asked by chica 2 in Diet & Fitness

2007-05-12 19:02:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Los Angeles

my friend whom iv know since i was 14 came to my house to visit.
so she gets sleepy and i gets sleepy so i took a nap and both of us where in the same bed.but nothing happend, and then my gf comes home gets mad at me and thinking im cheating on her.
and it doesnt help that im always pretending to flirt with her.

but my gf knows ill sleep any where and our clothes where still on i didnt really feel like telling her what really happend so i just told her to leave.
i dont really know how to talk to people and be nice.
but i really want to tell her but i dont know how.

i dont even see why my gf thinks i woukld sleep with my friend.

how can i tell my gf what happend ?

2007-05-12 19:01:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mean!!! j.k but seriously man they dont believe men when we say we have blue balls. they dont know the pain!! do you think blue balls are real or not?

2007-05-12 19:01:53 · 12 answers · asked by jason m 1 in Singles & Dating

as in...to control your emotions...n urself...

not in da muscular way...

2007-05-12 19:01:12 · 11 answers · asked by BLACK KILLZ.....!?! 3 in Polls & Surveys

why am I running around with out a GPS
and was permited to lived next door to a child care center for 4 years
and go to waterslide park?

2007-05-12 19:00:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Law Enforcement & Police

in other words getting a little action, without a relationship happening?

2007-05-12 19:00:45 · 18 answers · asked by scorch_22 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking about people who definitely do not believe in heaven or God for #1
1. Do you believe in what comes around goes around, you sow what you reap, or what?
2. What keeps you from sinning or doing wrong?
3. Do you care?
4.. What got you to the point of believeing there is no God or heaven?
5. Are you afraid of death? What do you think about death as it can happen at any time?
6. Do you think it is better safe than sorry to ask God to forgive you and let you into heaven, or do you think you should just party?

2007-05-12 19:00:17 · 18 answers · asked by deva s 3 in Religion & Spirituality

We have been friends forever, and he's in that confused stage of trying to find out who he is. I have like him forever as well. Is it possible for him to ever love me like I love him? He means that absolute world to me, and I want him to be happy, but I want to be happy too.

2007-05-12 18:59:57 · 4 answers · asked by Ron M 2 in Friends

2007-05-12 18:59:53 · 15 answers · asked by Kwan2007 1 in Philosophy

so this guy that i used to work with liked me. he knew i had a boyfriend and knew nothing would ever happen between us. then it seemed like he was trying to make me jealous. he could never say my boyfriend's name even though i always use it. he'll be like "how are you and your" ... and just kind of pause until i said boyfriend. (it always seemed that if the guy can't say you're boyfriend's name without some smart remark it meant he was jealous.) then he got a girlfriend. and he would come up and pretty much just be like i just had lunch with my girlfriend. i thought it was wierd only because he brought it up out of nowhere. then about a week ago i stopped by and ended up talking to him again. one of the first things he said to me had to do with the fact that he had just got off the phone with a girl and they had plans for sunday.
why does he do that?
does it mean he still likes me?

2007-05-12 18:59:46 · 6 answers · asked by agarcia 2 in Friends

answer these in number format
1 would you if your country was being directly invaded
2 would you if your country was fighting a pointless war
3 would you if you knew that your country was going to loose
4 would you if your wife threatend to divorce you
5 would you if your countries ally was getting invaded and they asked volunteers to go and help
6 would you if you knew you were going to die but didnt know if your country would win or loose
7 if you could somehow would you be willing to die if you could take out 2, 5, 9, or what number of the enimie would you be willing to die to kill?
8would you illegally shoot a prisoner if you knew that he killed 2 or more of your guys- if you did this you would face prison time
9would you soot him if he killed a very good friend
10what about a family member

2007-05-12 18:58:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Military

During photochemical reaction between K3[Fe(C2O4)3]3H20 (Ferric Potassium Oxalate) and K3Fe(CN)6, I had to Sulfuric Acid. What is the reason Sulfuric acid must be added?

2007-05-12 18:58:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Chemistry

2007-05-12 18:58:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Botany

Pls. be specific about what kind of sandwich you like to eat and what you put between the 2 slices of bread. Oh, and serious answers only, sandwiches you actually like.

2007-05-12 18:57:28 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Food & Drink

I ask this question because it seems most people have no idea of our freedoms lost throught the Patriot act and how much of the details inside this Patriot act were not made as public as they should be.

2007-05-12 18:57:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics