Ive been married for 3 yrs, my daughter is 8,my husband is not her biological dad.My husband has left to go stay with his family for a while b/c we had a disagreement.I have talked to him to see where the problem lies.He stated that he can not live in a house where he is disrespected by an 8 yr old.He doesnt feel that I discipline properly & feels like I am against him and take her side.I try to tell him that that I am not choosing sides, however I often feel that his military background causes him to nit pick over things and sometimes the punishments that he chooses are too severe for her actions.That is not the only prob, I feel that he emotionally neglects me and my child. Our sex life is dissapating, he makes me feel undesired, unattractive,& unimportant. I dont know how to fix our problems,everytime we argue he leaves for days and then comes back and I am so glad hes home that the prob doesnt get fixed but I cant continue this cycle.I am mentally, physically,&emotionally exhausted
2007-05-10
04:37:45
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Slugger#4
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Marriage & Divorce