I have been married for 8 years, have a 6 year old daughter and have with with my man for 10 years all together. He had a 6 month affair with a 16 year old about 4 years ago, he was 33 at the time. The other girl ended it, he didn't. He was planning on leaving me and taking our daughter away to another country with this girl. He still speaks to her in the street and still tells me about it!
Problem is, my man now constantly accuses me of cheating with his ex-mate, something I would never dream of doing. He has banned me from speaking to this friend, not even allowed to wave to him when we pass in the car. Me and this friend have done nothing wrong, just speak as friends. My man doesnt trust me and even suggests that I encourage people by the way I speak to them!
Im almost 30 and I hate the fact that my man is dictating my life to me and controlling everything I do. He phones me every hour at home to check that Im there and not gone to this friends house.
What can I do?!
2007-04-11
00:29:36
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Tracy
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Marriage & Divorce