and i didn't go out, or do ANYTHING that you wouldn't approve of...
WOULD YOU TRUST ME? knowing that i could be reached at any time.
would you have any reason to doubt your girlfriend if this were her?
2007-04-11 00:30:03 · 13 answers · asked by lil' angel 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No, I wouldn't trust you. In the case you talk of, there would be, regardless of your fidelity, a little voice in the back of my head saying "What should I do to change this relationship before it falls apart?"
If you were my friend first, my 'girl' second (as I think it should be), I would treat you as that friend first and want you to have your own life, your own thoughts, your own time alone, your own time with other friends, your own time to be you without me. And I would want you to want the same for me. As a friend, I would trust you, and expect you to trust me; otherwise we're not friends. Think of everything each of us could bring to each other in that type of relationship.
Less quantity time together, more quality time together. There's a balance to be made, but quality counts for more. And a person's qualities can only expand in the open, not in a restrictive box.
I hope this is an academic question. If not, my apologies if any nerves were pricked.
Peace
2007-04-11 05:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by zingis 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you only getting home at 9? late shifts?
Like the above has said, seems a bit too good and all that..
Definate trust issues
2007-04-11 07:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by wiccan140684 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a relationship doesn't have any trust in it between one another then you shouldn't even consider being in a serious relationship. If the trust is there then heck no go out and have fun.
2007-04-11 07:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by guitardan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course I'd doubt you. its not natural to do the things you just described, and if you really did I would always be wondering "when is she gonna snap"?
if you really enjoy being home always by 9 and truly never do anything that couldbe considered "not approved", then you seriously need to find a partner who also enjoys being home at 9 and not doing anything you wouldn't disprove of.
2007-04-11 07:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by yuntaa_dba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is the case, I probably would trust you. Doesn't sound like your giving me any reason not to trust you.
Sounds like you need to leave a situation.
2007-04-11 07:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont have any reason to doubt you, until u ask this question. Maybe once at a time ruin your routine activities would give you some fun ! Try home more late at a time..
2007-04-11 07:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by veronika_linda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...there's just something suspicious about perfection? Why don't you do anything I don't approve of? Are you hiding something? Lol....sounds like someone has some jealousy issues deep within themselves, eh?
2007-04-11 07:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Catfish 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman and I trust a girlfriend like you..
2007-04-11 07:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by Chamundi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u were my gf. i would trust u. i already do trust u but thats not the point of the question. trust is something that is built over time. and over time i have learned to trust you. im sure he will to.
2007-04-11 08:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if its shows she's really trustworthy yeah, id put my trust on her, whoever she is, the thing is, if she ever break that trust, i wont have lay even the smallest amount of trust on her, that's how hard to keep a valued trust, so be careful who you trust.
2007-04-11 08:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by ~rAveLic!oUs~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋