My husband and I have been married 10years September 21, 1996. We have two beautiful children. Both of them were made with love. Our sex life took a dive soon after my son was born, 10/08/97. We went to a life counselor when my son was about three, we had much stress from new baby, new job, new state, new marriage. My huband was the one who talked me into going, I'm glad we did. We didn't talk of our sex life, she wasn't a sex therepist. I am ebarrassed that i have not initiated sex, it has done much damage to my husbands well being. He is awesome, he loves us much and is pro active. i am passive, he asked for yrs what my fantasy is, he has them, I don't. We communicate well. He drinks more and more. We love each other but my low labido has driven him to drink. We have come to this conclusion, is it fair to say this? My lack of initiation makes him feel like less of a person. I love him, we do have sex but only when he initiates. I never think about it. I'm troubled by all this.
2007-03-28
17:47:21
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