I am 22 years old and I am currently going to college and living with my parents.
We have a next door neighbor who is an 11 year old girl. She is very pretty and well developed for her age. She always comes over to my house and we play video games and such. But yesterday, she jumped on top of my and kissed me on the cheek.
When she did that, I was overcome with urges for her. Im still a virgin and most girls my age don't want to date me.
Ever since she kissed me, I can't stop thinking about her, I want more to be more than just friends with her.
Should I act on these urges? What should I do? Is it still illegal even if her parents say its ok?
2007-03-28 17:46:14 · 16 answers · asked by Mitchell H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, wait till she's 18, or you'll end up in the slammer. Not worth it.
2007-03-28 17:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by a person 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not act on your urges. She's 11 and not emotionally or mentally ready to handle your "urges."
If you had an 11 year old daughter...would you want a 22 year old trying to have sex with her?
If you respect this girl, do not make a pass at her. It's manipulative and emotinally damaging.
Just because you can't get laid doesn't mean you need to take this child's innocence. Be an adult.
2007-03-28 17:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u for real?
She's 11!!!!
She doesn't knw anything yet!
She thinks of you as a brother.
Pls dnt ruin her life. If you really like her you'll wait a little longer
until she's 16 or above and has the same feelings for u
I'm gald ur sharing this with us
'cuz u'l regret that in the future.
Plz don't do anything immature.
Its for ur on good too.
I'm sure you'll find sum1suitable to ur age
2007-03-28 20:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by madstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Julliete are you on CRACK? Do you realize how illegal and creepy this is. This person is a grown man who is 22, the girl is HARDLY in puberty and still in grade school. Do you actually think this relationship can work out? Also do you really think the parents would let their children date someone who is 22?
2007-03-28 17:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by T boy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man should be interested in women that arouse him sexually as well as intellectually. If you are getting aroused by a young girl, you need to grow up and join your generation. What in the world are you doing with this baby anyway. Talk to you folks, let them know, seek help. Keep away from this child and avoid her. Should you act on this, you are likely to go to jail. Once there, you will be the one who is molested. Consider the damage you will do to this child. SEEK HELP.
2007-03-28 17:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Danver 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wtf who raised you .....you need to get out more quit playing with the girli who has a crush on you be her big brother playing pretend boyfriend with her in case you dont know will get you in trouble Apparently if you are feeling urges about an overdeveloped 11 year old this should be enuff to shake you up a bit that somethings not right about the relationship her ocming over etc... draw the line man......come down to reality besides it is obvious you will go to jail.
2007-03-28 17:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Chi-Girli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohmygod sir. nonono that is not right. it would be best to stop talking to her. you could get in alottt of trouble for that. dont act on your urges,wait until she is older. when you are 11 years old youre not mature enough to make big decisions like that. its illegal no matter what.
2007-03-28 17:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SHE IS HALF YOUR AGE YOU SICK PERVE. leave the poor girl alone, shes way to young to know what she wants and trust me its not some 22 yr old loser who goes after someone who is 11. find someone ur own age . infact just stay away from girls.
2007-03-28 17:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by loveendswithguns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
Control your urges mate. Or its jail where you'll be getting your fix. She's 11, you are 22.
2007-03-28 17:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by Darth V 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude no.
Listen, I know all too well where you're coming from. It's hard to resist. But what parent would say yes to that? And if they did, you still know that it's wrong.
Listen, write me privately, and I'll drop some real knowledge on you. Alot of people write me, so remind me of who you are.
2007-03-28 17:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋