To make a long story short, my bf has been considering a military career for a long time. I didn't voice my objections b/c I thought maybe he'd change his mind. When he mentioned his idea tonight, I told him he'd have to do it without me and I couldn't promise I'd wait for him. I explained that I worried about the separation and him dying. He told me that he was considering a job in the Air Force where there'd be less risk. I finally said I'd reconsider. He told me he didn't want me to say no without knowing what I was saying no to, b/c I really don't know much about the military. As we were hanging up, I said, "I don't want to give up on us." He was silent, so I added, "If you don't agree, be honest with me." He replied, "I really wasn't even thinking of that." I really do want to marry him if at all possible, which is partly why I worried so much about the risks of military life. Should I worry that he's going to leave me? I really don't want to lose him.
2007-03-16
19:25:06
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