I'm 28 and I've been married about 1 yr 4 months. My husband and I are 13 weeks pregnant. The problem is that we've only had sex 4 times since he found out we're pregnant. At first, he said he was afraid because of possibly hurting the baby. 2 of the times we had sex, I bled. My dr diagnosed me with a weak cervix and scheduled a cerclage for me. But she ok'd sex and said we'd be fine. At first, that was his excuse for no sex, but once the dr ok'd it, I thought we'd be ok. But he still hasn't touched me. I've tried propositioning him which used to work like a charm. He has became aroused, but said he still wasn't interested in having sex. I wish I could say it's my weight, but I've only gained 5 pounds so far. I'm still wearing my old clothes. He says it's stress related, but I've tried helping him relax, and it doesn't work. And he won't see anyone like a counselor to try to help. I'm at the end of my rope. What else can I do? I miss my husband!
2007-03-11
21:18:03
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sassy2midnite
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Marriage & Divorce