What will you do if you saw your mother cheating with your dad?

Question

I saw my mom with another guy and its not my dad!!!

Answer 1

Gees, Thats not to good sweety! Although, I would probably say something to her, because she is not really being considerate of you ,nor of your brothers and sisters that is if you have any? Nor, Is she being faithful to your dad and this is not good at all .I am extremely sorry that you are being put through this ,although you never know maybe your dad is not being faithful to her ,or maybe not spending any quality time with her .I have been divorced twice and it is not good.Actually this is what caused my first divorce was because he was not being faithful ,and that caused me not to be faithful to him ,and there were never no time set aside for only just us .Anyway I will pray for you and your family.Try not to let it bring you down .I know several individuals that have had affairs although, they are still together and going on strong together for years because they did not want a divorce because of their children although, what ever you do do not tell your dad because it might make problems even worse only confront your mother ok !

Answer 2

What were your mom and the other guy doing? She could have just been talking to him. If you saw her actually doing something you think is wrong, then I think your dad has every right to know what's going on behind his back, and I would just tell him what you saw.

Answer 3

Ok well, talk about it with your mum. Anything you say or dont say will eventually cause family friction anyway. Tell her, what you saw and that she should tell your father if she does not love him anymore. If she refuses to, give her an ultimatum. Like if she does not tell your dad in 2 weeks, you will tell him yourself. I know that you will probably want your parents to stay together, but cheating is awful and there is no point in being in a false relationship, its unhealthy for the whole family.

Answer 4

Better say something to your Mom, maybe there's an explanation. If it was cheating, then after you talk with your Mom decide about talking with your Dad. It's your mother's place to do that, NOT yours. I hope she has the integrity to deal with the situation she has put you in.

Answer 5

Is there anyway that you can talk to your mother about this ?
I know it looks bad, but there may be things going on in your parents lives that you have no idea about.
A happy person doesn't cheat, so there are probably issues between her and your dad that you're not aware of.

Please don't judge your mother until you have all the facts, and don't involve other family members at this point.

I hope this helps .. and you get some answers soon.
*hugs*

Answer 6

with another? where? are u sure ? what if that guy is a sales man , and ur mom will buy a surprise gift to ur dad, if u see ur mom kissing just like the song i saw mommy kissing santa claus , under the bed ,ok then thats a song , now get evidence , so u can have a ramson

Answer 7

confront your mom when you are alone with her before you decide on wether to tell your dad. she might have a good answer maybe she ran into a long time pal and they were just talking and catching up or did you catch mom in the act of doing something she shouldn't have been doing?

Answer 8

discuss it with the school guidance office or someone you trust. consulting a website on these matters is really not something i would recommend. i would possibly try bringing it up slightly in conversation with your mom but from there it is her responsibility and not yours to work things out with your dad.

Answer 9

I would tell my mum that I had seen her and give her a chance to explain. You then have 3 choices, believe what she says and let it go, believe what she says and tell her she has to tell your Dad or you will, don't believe her and tell your Dad yourself. Tough call, good luck :-)

Answer 10

I would talk to your mother and let her know, you know...I wouldn't tell dad, that's for your mom to do....This had to be really hard for you to see, you mom need to say she is sorry....