my husband and i love each other very much. we hace 2 kids and i dont want it to end. I have talk to him and i try to compromised but he dosent, he said he will but that is as far as he got. sometimes i feel like my 4 years of marriage has been through one situation through another. First his toxic grandmother who make our lives hell at first, she insulted me, she even try to put both against each other. Then our personal problems like he cant make balance in his life. He is never home and that hurts our relationship because theres no time to nurture our love. I dont want to have sex with him because its all become routine wake up take care of the kids he ggoes to work. I have ask him like a zillion of times to be a little more romantic and he dosent hear. I am the typoe of person who likes that , a person who likes to feel love and care for , im not taking about big things a little note just something that shows he care and remember me. I want for me and him to be intimate we each other. That if we makes plan to take our kids out we can do it. he has the 6 days a month free two sundays of the month and one day in the week that is the same every week. all i ask is that he has it but evrytime we make plan and someone call from work he goes to work and leave us. the time he is here the phone never stop ringing and its from work that can get really anoying. The last time we where at a very important doctors appointment of our duagther the phone never stop ringing from his work and i feel like his work is invading our private space. He thinks by working more he coud make us more happy but its not i rather preffered he spend that time on home. we live fine with what he gets paid we dont need more i just want time for me and my family. we need time so we could arrange our issues we nevr have the time to work things out. I know he knows whats happening but why if he dont want our marriage to end why dosent he make an effort to change an effort to compromised. i want that when he is home for him to be home not to be on his job that we can be a famly that we can spent some time together my son often call for him and all i can say is he is working he be home soon thta breaks my heart because that extra time his working will be better used with our son. also i want that we can work things out that we have a better comunication skills and compromised i gave birth a couple of month ago by c section and he didnt stay with me not even one day that hurts because its like he dosent care about me. i just like bunch of little things how can we work things out we can continue like this like to stranger. if we love each other so much
2007-02-20
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