i really need help finding someone new. see my fiance just broke up with me the day after our 1 year anniversery. i know that i'm better off but it's hitting me hard. i have no way of meeting someone else. i live in a pretty small town and work at a family business that no one new ever comes in at. i go to church but nobody there is interested, or interesting. i don't do the bar stuff..that was a thing of my college days, and i'm not going to sign up for one of those online dating sites because you never know who is out there lerking. i don't know what to do.i know i need some time for my self right now and my cats and dog are loving the attention and me being home but i'm at a loss. any ideas?
2007-02-20 01:25:20 · 6 answers · asked by NMarieH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's an old cliche'.... The harder you look for a boy/girlfriend the fewer choices that seem to be around...
I too live in a small town, worked in a family business and thought the picking here were slim. Then I chanegd my attitude about this dreary small town and made the best of it. I also traveled out of town more, and expanded my hunting territory. Let's not forget Internet dating. It's no longer just geeks anymore.
Long story short.. Start looking at the glass as beign half full instead of half empty.
2007-02-27 14:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by MojaveDan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your better off without your ex. Take up a hobby, or a night class, you may find someone there. But if I was you, i'd enjoy being single and getting out with my friends, bars, clubs, cinema etc and just enjoy the fact of life. Don't look to hard and he should find you.
2007-02-28 01:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by mr_scotsguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go looking, you will only end up with the wrong person, like somebody eals said, sign up with a evening/weekend class. you will meet new and interesting people. Before you know it the new love of your life will appear, just walk right into your life. GL x
2007-02-27 22:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend some time with yourself and don't be in a rush to be in a relationship. take time in doing things you like and someone will find you.
2007-02-27 14:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Debt Free! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try a online dating system or just stay single
2007-02-28 00:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by redwrestlingblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋