I'm not sure what's going on with him.. but he hasn't wanted any for a whole month. I have initiated it three times and he has 'finished' in like five minutes all three times. Other than that he only kisses me before work and that's it. He's not really acting any different otherwise, he's just not interested in bed. Now, he did start third shift recently and I don't really bother him through the week, but on friday and saturday nights he is wide awake and not tired and he still doesn't want to do anything- after the baby is asleep. I'm so stressed out about this, and when I mention to him that sex is an important part of a marriage (esp at 24) he says "you watch too damn much Oprah" and just blows me off. I'm scared our marriage is just falling apart and he's just not interested in me anymore. :( I've made us an appt with a marriage counselor for a few weeks from now, but what can I do to make the situation better right now? We used to have a great love life, and now it's just GONE.
2007-02-09
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