All categories - 21 January 2007

What would you do if a guy says this?
you were just about to go out of the rest room, he opens the door then closes it again because he said that he would only open the door if you were thinner?or that you would have been beautiful if you were not fat?

i know i need to diet, im not really a big woman, my friends tell me im just fine, i just need to cut down on chocolates, i just feel like i dont and would never go on a diet just so men could be impressed with my looks, i would want to be liked and truly appreciated for me , and not just be seen as a somebody because i have a great body whatsoever,
by the way i did not do anything with that man even though he was being totally disrespectful, its just that i am already pessimistic about men, i think 96 percent are shallow.
i dont understand why i can appreciate and love fat men , and love them for who they are, but i dont think that is the case for men

2007-01-21 18:25:47 · 7 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi there.
I just need some advice from people out there. My boyfriend of 4 years has opened his own plumbing business a year ago, and he now wants me to work for him doing his office work. I just started a new job this January, and I don’t know what to do. The job I have now is far from home to drive (+ - 40 kilometers); his offices are close to my home (+ - 5 kilometers). So I will save around R900-00 a month just on petrol. This job my salary is R7000-00 and he will give me R6000-00. I will have so much more freedom working with him. I also have been trying to do modeling, but with the hours I work, I can’t ever get to an audition. He said I can go whenever I need to go. We see each other everyday so I honestly don’t think we will argue or anything. He won’t be in the office in the day anyway. I just feel that I would put so much more effort into his business than I would anyone else’s. What are your views on this? We have a serious relationship and want to get married one day.

2007-01-21 18:25:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel like I am pretty good at sport. However, I am often beaten by my own lack of self belief when things start to go wrong. Are there any proven mental techniques to help overcome this?

2007-01-21 18:25:34 · 1 answers · asked by Andrew 2 in Psychology

2007-01-21 18:25:27 · 10 answers · asked by asooneh 1 in Respiratory Diseases

Also, most places dont accept dyed hair- is there anywhere that does- because mine is dyed.

2007-01-21 18:25:22 · 7 answers · asked by Sammy 5 in Hair

2007-01-21 18:25:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Physics

about this one :
" a gallery with a number of pictures on the wall and a guy probably an art student, a piece in the gallery starts shouting every 5 minutes what 's that supposed to mean ?what does the gallery want to convey?"

2007-01-21 18:25:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Visual Arts

2007-01-21 18:24:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Mythology & Folklore

2007-01-21 18:24:43 · 6 answers · asked by Harikrishnan R 1 in Zoology

2007-01-21 18:24:42 · 17 answers · asked by JOSEPH J 2 in Religion & Spirituality

Hi there.
I just need some advice from people out there. My boyfriend of 4 years has opened his own plumbing business a year ago, and he now wants me to work for him doing his office work. I just started a new job this January, and I don’t know what to do. The job I have now is far from home to drive (+ - 40 kilometers); his offices are close to my home (+ - 5 kilometers). So I will save around R900-00 a month just on petrol. This job my salary is R7000-00 and he will give me R6000-00. I will have so much more freedom working with him. I also have been trying to do modeling, but with the hours I work, I can’t ever get to an audition. He said I can go whenever I need to go. We see each other everyday so I honestly don’t think we will argue or anything. He won’t be in the office in the day anyway. I just feel that I would put so much more effort into his business than I would anyone else’s. What are your views on this? We have a serious relationship and want to get married one day.

2007-01-21 18:24:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 18:24:34 · 22 answers · asked by doggylegsniff 1 in Parenting

I just want to find out if here is a person who might know why some evil people hate other people so much that they wanna wish them all the bad things. Why should they bother with people that they don't even know.

2007-01-21 18:24:22 · 11 answers · asked by Zico 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-01-21 18:24:19 · 3 answers · asked by Sasha K 1 in Fashion & Accessories

favorite gay artist(s) Rufus Wainwright, Antony(and the johnsons) Favorite lesbian artist(s) Melissa Ferrick, Tegan and Sara, Indigo Girls

2007-01-21 18:24:01 · 22 answers · asked by adriboho 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

From time to time, people develop a mild case of the blues, but I seem to take it hard whenever I get depressed. So, what do you do to beat a mild case of the blues?

2007-01-21 18:24:00 · 9 answers · asked by bridgetrocks86 2 in Psychology

2007-01-21 18:23:55 · 19 answers · asked by doggylegsniff 1 in Parenting

2007-01-21 18:23:54 · 4 answers · asked by okgo 4 in Other - Beauty & Style

My wife says she can not remember the email address of her married lover with who she had chatted for one year. She says she has lost the book containing the email. She met him twice as is written in the passionate love letter I found.

2007-01-21 18:23:42 · 12 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 18:23:37 · 8 answers · asked by Harikrishnan R 1 in Zoology

As In many say if its not taken at teh same time each day it looses its effectiveness.... How close to the same time should it be? For example I have school 5 days a week so i take it at almost the exact same time (which is 6 30) 5 days a week, however, If I get to sleep in on saturday or sunday, sometimes I dont wake up until about 10...so I take it then. thats only on saturdays and sundays and not EVERY sat and sunday... is it bad that i'm taking it anywhere from 1-3 hours later than usual 1 day a week or so?

2007-01-21 18:23:21 · 7 answers · asked by USCfemme10 3 in Singles & Dating

We live in mass and it seems like no matter what you do you can't truly rehabilitate-he is incredibly smart and such a good person-you would never know he had a past-its the typical story of being a product of poverty and not really having a choice...does anyone know any advocasy organazations or websites or anyplace you can refer us to for info on this? its soo discouraging-i mean why do people think a record is the only way to know someone-the world is filled with pediphiles,criminals and morally corrupt people that may not have a black mark on their record by chance but destroy everything they touch. I would appreciate any feedback-please don't give me any negative or judgmental comments I don't want the discouragment please...thanx so much!!

2007-01-21 18:23:20 · 7 answers · asked by hipmamma25 1 in Law & Ethics

After reading and loving the Teenage Liberation Handbook, I'm wondering if there are other books that support dropping out of high school!

2007-01-21 18:23:17 · 9 answers · asked by jill_andrews32 1 in Home Schooling

2007-01-21 18:23:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Society & Culture

2007-01-21 18:23:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

approx. 40 miles.

2007-01-21 18:23:02 · 8 answers · asked by blob888 2 in Other - Cars & Transportation

My wife says she can not remember the email address of her married lover with who she had chatted for one year. She says she has lost the book containing the email. She met him twice as is written in the passionate love letter I found.

2007-01-21 18:23:00 · 2 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or in a relationship with anyone at the moment, I know there is no one else involved we have lived together for 2 and a half years, he says he needs to find out who he is as he no longer knows and there are a lot off things he needs to sort out. He came to me about 4 months after his marriage broke up and i love him to bits and miss him badly. I know he needs space etc to get things sorted out in his head and he said who knows what will happen when he gets things sorted out, but he cant give me false hope as he cares for me to much. Do you think he will be back?????

2007-01-21 18:22:55 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

On Friday, an African American woman and her son (must have been about 8-10 years old) walked up to me while I was in New York city and asked me if I could give them some money for food. The woman looked lost and had tears in her eyes, but the son looks emotionless. I replied, "You should find the police, they should be able to help you out." She replied, "Forget it, we're black." and walked away.

I do feel really bad for not offering to help out, but I've given money to strangers (either that they "lost" their wallets, don't have money for food or even a train ride home, and etc...) that asked me for money in the last 2 years. After I gave those strangers money, I asked them to e-mail me back to let me know they've gotten home safely. You know how many e-mails I've gotten from those strangers? None... Not 1 had the decency to tell me that my money was well spent. So now I've rejected the last two attempts of strangers asking me for money. What would you guys do?

2007-01-21 18:22:48 · 1 answers · asked by bsbro 2 in Other - Society & Culture

Does anyone else have a grow a frog kit? I have had the tadpole for 2 weeks now. When do I change some of its water?

2007-01-21 18:22:24 · 3 answers · asked by Laura M 2 in Fish