My girlfriend and I have been together for one and half years, and she is amazing to me, and we have a potential to be married later (she has two kids). There is another girl that I have been good friends with for nearly 5 years. I admitted to my girlfriend I was attracted this other girl at one point, and there would always be some small amount of attraction that lingers... So I agreed to talk to her less than i used to (twice/month rather than once/week). My girlfriend now wants to me to make sure I talk to her once every 3 months, and not be close friends with her anymore. I generally like to keep in touch with my friends more often than that, and it is making me feel controlled. My girlfriend is very loving, makes me happy, and we are very good together. But sometimes she seems insecure. Although I understand her situation, it upsets me that she is telling me what to do with someone I've known much longer than her. Please help give me some perspective on this situation..
2007-01-02
02:36:20
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