Things were going great between us, when we first met. We get along great, there's great chemistry between us intellectually and physically, we come from similar backgrounds and have many of the same interests. Now he's withdrawing, telling me that he's not capable of being in a serious relationship, that his head is messed up, etc. He says the woman he was with was pure evil. Am not sure what he saw in her or why he stayed in it for so long, and he says he doesn't either. He always pays me lots of compliments which I think are sincere, I seem to be the opposite of his ex. I believe he truly likes me as a person. And he's told me he loves being with me. I've told him I'm open to having a casual relationship with him, but he keeps telling me I should be looking for someone who can give me what I deserve. Still, I want him and he knows it. But he has gradually stopped making an effort. It feels hurtful and disrespectful, though I don't think he means it to be.
2006-12-31
03:35:54
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