I've been going out with a guy for 4 months, I met him at a party where my mother was also a guest so she met him too. She continually asks me about him, expects me to take him round to to see her, bought him a present & wrote him note in a card & insisted I give them to him, despite me saying I didn't think it was appropriate. On the occasion I did take him round she completely dominated the conversation, made some jokes at my expense, leaving me feeling uncomfortable as it is still a new relationship. Last week she made cakes &, again, insisted I take some to him, despite me saying repeatedly I didn't want to! It feels like she is trying too hard to get him to like HER (she has already made up her mind she wants him as a son-in-law but I haven't decided yet what I want!) and, significantly for me, he hasn't told his parents he is seeing anyone yet! Silly or sensible opinions appreciated, anything to help me get some perspective, it's driving me nuts!
2006-11-28
21:46:09
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Lulu H
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Other - Family & Relationships