as in 7 boyfriends down the line,keep in mind i had my first boyfriend when i was 18 and am now 21.among the 7,i only dumped one,the rest dumped me...am worried,i really need a boyfriend,help?
2006-11-28 21:41:12 · 9 answers · asked by cherie baibe! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it may be your age or rather, the age of the guys you are going out with. If they are in their 20's like you, they probably dont really want to comit to a relationship. i think most guys at that age just want to have fun.
its probably not you, its them!
2006-11-28 21:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by EAT! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you really need a boyfriend? You're 21! Maybe that's why the dumped you, they just liked getting to know you and dating you, but maybe they could tell you were in love with having a boyfriend instead of focused on just them. Just date for a while, and if you find a keeper, that's great!
2006-11-28 21:46:01 · answer #2 · answered by serena3116 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should look and observe the guy that will be ur bf,observe his character and see whether urs will suit his..get some commitment from the other party and put some real effort into it..if ur just going into it just for a bf(i mean just to show off),u might as well dont start..but since u sound serious,give it some time b4 u go serious..make sense?
all the best..
2006-11-28 22:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by alexgnot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...need more detail...reason for break up?
were u too needy? thats a sign of weakness in the eyes of guyz...
or was it insecurity or jealousy? dun do that either...if u want the relationship to last...then dun show u care too much....im the same...my relationship neva lasted...but its usually i do the dumpin but after bein dumped for the first time....it took me a long time to heal..reason was coz i got too attached and i cared too much so i became clinging and jealous when my ex started talkin to other gals....and it ruined the relationship
2006-11-28 21:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by Forever happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should write down all your plusses and minuses on a piece of paper and look at them carefully. Only YOU can honestly answer this question, but from the sounds of it...it's you!
2006-11-28 21:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends... maybe cause of their personality or maybe urs... try being single for some time n see how it goes... n its normal for not having long relationship... I too had short relationship... the shortest with is 1 week... n not consider those ONS type... =D
2006-11-28 21:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young give it some time you will have many more befor you meet the right one best of luck to you
2006-11-28 22:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick to your values, the right one will come around eventually
2006-11-28 22:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's them you just be yourself until the right one comes along
2006-11-28 21:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋