i was in love with one of my collegue prior to my marriage...
Some how we were not able to turn up that into wedding...
she was not allowed to marry me and got married to some one else
it had been a story of 2 years back
Now she is single, her husband died
she expecting me and my faith.
what should i do... in this regard
2006-11-28 21:44:04 · 12 answers · asked by He_man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Even though her marriage is over yours is not. She has no right to expect you to be faithful to her since you took vows to your wife. With that said if you are still in love with her you need to ask yourself if you love her enough to end your marriage? Don't cheat on your wife however because that just causes more pain to everyone involved.
2006-11-28 21:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by copper_eos 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If you are married now, what you should be asking yourself is what is it that's causing you to even think about leaving your wife. I suspect it's not 100% this girl whose now a widow.
You need to cut the contact with her. If you work together, do whatever you can to stay away from her. If your marriage is at stake, then finding another job should not be out of the question.
Focus on making your marriage the best it can be. Your vows were "forsaking all others", it did not include "unless someone you used to love becomes available." Be a real man, and do the right thing.
2006-11-28 22:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by LilRedHrdGrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's past is past. You made a vow to your wife. Keep that vow as sacred. By going to your past love, you're telling your wife that she's second rate, and that you can't be trusted to keep your word that you gave her at your wedding. You need to be a man, stand up to your word, and stay with your wife. Let your past lady find someone else. Just because she's free doesn't mean she has a hold on you. Once you got married, all bets were off. <*)))><
2006-11-28 22:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not good enough for her than...so why now?
What about your wife? What will she think say do about all this?
The past is history it still feels but leave it there let it go and grow with your future...or divorce your wife marry this woman just do it right.
2006-11-28 21:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your Married! Work on your marriage not some whim.
2006-11-28 21:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Cori 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aren't you married now?Are you missing out on something? It is up for you to decide
2006-11-28 21:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
once you have loved, you will always love... for whats in your mind may escape but whats in your heart will remain forever... that was what true love is!!! and if you still feel the same way to her... maybe you're really meant for each other... so, what are you waiting for... be happy with her......
2006-11-28 21:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you still feel love for her, marry her.
2006-11-28 21:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by Nikhil G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You Took VOWS remember those. What you should do is work on your marriage.
2006-11-28 22:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're married now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
how silly could you be to ask this question?
if you want to marry that girl, why in ******'s name did you marry your f****n wife?
stick to your marriage!! and forget that girl..
you want to be fall back dude/ bad husband/peanut brain/ weener eater/ *** of a *****?
good luck dude..
think about it..
2006-11-28 22:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by tep 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋