I've been engaged for one year and one month. I must have asked him six times "when's the date"? It came out during the weekend that he already chose a date. He chose it after the fourth time I asked him, but I was never told. When I asked the fifth and sixth times, I was asked "why are you in such a rush?"
You might ask me why did I ask so many times? First, if I had gotten an answer the first time, I wouldn't have had to ask five more times, and secondly, I do believe I was to be one of the people to get married so that pretty much gave me the right to know. Once I heard him say he already picked the date, I lost it, people!!! I gave the ring back...was I right?
His side of the story is he wanted to surprise me and it's not like he did it nicely. He made me feel horrible; like I was begging and like I wasn't good enough for him. If he even said "give me until the end of the year to decide, I would have gave him that. I wasn't ready to get married this year anyway.
2006-11-21
04:00:04
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jeanettebrivera
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Marriage & Divorce