All categories - 18 November 2006

2006-11-18 01:05:26 · 8 answers · asked by kitty_eyes_cat_lover_bjr 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-11-18 01:05:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in German Football

This girl was my secondary school classmate. We used to know each other only barely. But God knows how many times i peeped at her during lesson instead of looking at the board. However, i was a shy boy (though still is) and the fact is that she had boyfriends one after another THROGHT OUT the teen years. and God know how many times i felt sour and my heart sank whenever i saw her with her guy(s).

During the poly years, i had a girlfriend and she was having a relatively more committed relationship. so my heart was with my girl at the time and hence u can only say that i have been a secret admirer "on-and-off" for 10 years.

OFF, is when i have a gf, my heart have no one else. and even when i'm single, i won't fall for a girl who is attached.

ON, is for the times when we were both unattached. it kind of give me hope bcoz she is available. For the past 10 years, i never take any action for these "on" periods.

For the past 2 months, we kind of reconnect our communication. Bcoz i'm studying in uni now and she is working, we have chance to chat for few hours daily on MSN. (mon-fri working hours only though, coz she don't usually use msn at home)

From recent chats,
she told me that she is now single, and she mentioned that she is not a late-queen for dates nowadays.
And after she know that i used to have one painful and hurtful relationship, she said that ppl have to move on and "if there's a good girl whom u like then give it a try"
She also claims that she only regard herself who had only 2 relationships coz sec sch histores are just childish ones.

We talked a lot rubbish, shared a lot of views, joked a lot and "suan" each other a lot and i feel (or maybe only i feel)that we start to have some connection.

So, last week, i managed to find some courage a said..

"you wrote on my sec sch autograph book that i can call u anytime, so.. can i call u tonight??"

but she replied "lol.. i have a dinner appointment tonight."

I was rather disappointed. I thought, if she doesn't mind me calling she would have state a time or sth.

But soon after, she said "next time we catch up with a movie, after your exam?", "when your exam finish?", "talk is cheap, fix a date now"....

so, our tentative date (or sec sch class monitor-monitress re-union if putting it mildly) is 3 dec!! just 2 days aft my exam. But the point is that we only chat on MSN and have not advanced into phone-talk and constant sms-es.

I keep thinking of her recently. and thinking..
Shd i postpone it? coz i just had a bad haircut.
what shd i say? how shd i behave? will i just blush and panic? is that anything in my walldrode that can match her smile and style? shd i pay for everything? where shd we eat?? It's not like i don't have experience.
Although i had gf before. But this time is different. She is a special person to me. (else i won't admire her for a decade
So now i'm like completely anxious and excited at the same time.

She is a very pretty girl to me. i looked at her that way for the past 10 years. so it's not like i'm saying this coz she is grown up now and having her own fashion taste.

But i have a low esteem of myself. coz i don't think i have the look. and that i'm just a poor student who owes the bank loan of $18k.

The tough point here for me is:
IS there another guys who express interest in her?
DOES she already has someone in mind?
when shd i tell her my feelings? the feelings that have been kept inside me for 10 years?
Should i buy her a present (and say it's christmas present) for that day?
Should i just write a love letter and confess everything? (probably not coz she might freak out)
What shd we do after movie?
OR.. after all, she might actually just take it at friendship level and that i am thinking way too much?

I feel that, sooner or later, i have to confess my feelings for her and give it a try. else i'll only keep thinking of her and suffocate myself.

What shd i do?
1) Taking it easy and naturally? (i think she will be taken by another guy if taking it slowly. coz she is just such a nice girl)
2) Show my feelings soon? (what if she got stunned and don't talk to me even on msn)

I'm so paranoid!! How i wish that behind every girl there is a equation and by solving it, you understand her thoughts and have her loving you!
(haha.. i'm engineering student)

Can ppl out there advice me? Especially girls. I would be glad to hear your opinons. Thanks a lot if u manage to read finish this essay.

2006-11-18 01:05:19 · 17 answers · asked by sp_jimmy 1 in Singles & Dating

i started reading this novel and was repulsed - the scene didn't appear loving and passionate but quite the opposite. i was surprised because the author was a woman.

why wouldn't you desire a gentle and devoted partner

thanx

2006-11-18 01:05:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Mental Health

I thought this website was for people looking for real answers to REAL questions. I have "surfed" this site for about 10 minutes and I ran across the following:

How do you give a goldfish a bath?
Are all Muslims pedophiles?
Can you use a q-tip to dry yourself off after a shower?

I mean...really!!!

2006-11-18 01:05:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I think all organized religions were created by men, and not by God. I don't think there is any one true religion. I think more evil and atrocities have been comitted in the name of religion than anything else.

2006-11-18 01:05:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

i started reading this novel and was repulsed - the scene didn't appear loving and passionate but quite the opposite. i was surprised because the author was a woman.

why wouldn't you desire a gentle and devoted partner

thanx

2006-11-18 01:04:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-11-18 01:04:38 · 1 answers · asked by suj1111d b 1 in Ahmedabad

2006-11-18 01:04:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dental

Hi, earlier this year I released a book. Another author has since released a book. It is clear to me that the author has taken my book, and reworded much of it. In some instances not even bothering to reword it. I believe there is significant case of plagiarism.

I live in the UK. Preferably I would like to sort it out with the publisher ammicably, although I will go to court if necessary.

Im fairly intelligent and am quite willing to take the case to court myself, although I cannot afford to pay a legal team.

I would like to know how to prepare a legal case for plagiarism?

I'm reasonable man. What is the best way to make initial contact with the publisher? where I can learn what forms I need etc. Procedures, online resources etc?

thank you

2006-11-18 01:04:24 · 7 answers · asked by Ordinary Eyes 2 in Law & Ethics

i live in london and i need someone to finish my project.it is only a small piece.thanks

2006-11-18 01:04:24 · 3 answers · asked by vanwilder 1 in Sculpture

i kno it has been asked loads of times..and i kno its stupid...but i wanna join one of those gangs...lol yea..and im still a kid.im 11...and i mostly do evil stuff...u kno..like them gangs do...so i just wanna kno w/c is betta and how to join em?!

2006-11-18 01:04:10 · 15 answers · asked by +dErtaY sOutH sOuLJah+ 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

i am a 11 years girl. i am very brainy. did not like any boy before but there are many girls who like him. is cool, sexy.
i feel he likes me bcause he has a soft corner towards . im not
sure.should i tell him clearly or start impressing him more.
really i luv him a lot.

2006-11-18 01:04:00 · 3 answers · asked by vaishnavi w 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there any social psychology approaches based on transactional analise?

2006-11-18 01:03:48 · 2 answers · asked by zurabp 2 in Mental Health

What are your theories on why African Americans are one of the most religious minority groups in America. NO PERSONAL ATTACKS. NO BIBLE QUOTES. NO RACIST OR OFFENSIVE COMMENTS.

2006-11-18 01:03:46 · 10 answers · asked by discworld2004 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-11-18 01:03:45 · 15 answers · asked by JstAnOldDad 1 in Politics

2006-11-18 01:03:21 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

2006-11-18 01:03:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

My dog is 5 year old cocker spaniel. I found 2 deer ticks biting him 1 was in his ear and the other on top of his head. They were both there for a while because they were fat and white. I also want to know if there is any cures for lyme disease for a dog. thank you

2006-11-18 01:02:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dogs

I'm baffled as to the softness of politicians toward law breakers. These illegal immigrants are exactly the same as a person breaking into my home that is from the poor side of town and I must let him stay in my home and help him along. Hey, the person works hard so I should let him stay...right? NOT!!!! This is bs and if I broke any law, no matter what it was...I'd be prosecuted and fined....there should be no exceptions for these lawbreakers either. Join the rest of the immigrants from around the world and come across the border LEGALLY!

2006-11-18 01:02:55 · 17 answers · asked by hearts_and_thoughts_2003 3 in Immigration

its dampish and the drywall had to go due to mold paneling is way to expensive what else could i use? also do vinil floor tiles really stick on cement or is there a better way to go? the room is going to be a boys bed room when im finished. so PLEASE help me out.
good day arby

2006-11-18 01:02:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Decorating & Remodeling

hi all, pl advice me,
me and my gf are tired up of having sex from rear entry,
so we thought of trying new things,
recently watching a porn movie, she asked me to go for rear entry, which seems to be impossible looking at her asshole, moreover that will cause immense pain to her as well as me,
how can we make it big,
in movie guy smoothly entered, how come
also is that safe

2006-11-18 01:02:40 · 8 answers · asked by golu 1 in Women's Health

i want to have a baby and don`t know when we should have unprotected sex.my last period was on the 08/11/06.could you help please?

2006-11-18 01:02:37 · 19 answers · asked by Jessica B 1 in Trying to Conceive

The cost price of a car is $120 000. If a salesman rises the marked price of the car 20% higher than the cost price, but offers a 10% discount to the customer, what is the marked price?

2006-11-18 01:02:22 · 14 answers · asked by dancing_terax 1 in Mathematics

2006-11-18 01:02:19 · 11 answers · asked by Indiekid 2 in Printers

I was recently rear ended on the freeway by a work truck, and am currently seeing a chiropracter (as well as my daughter, who was also in the accident). I used my insurance initially, because the owner of the company wasn't returning my phone calls. The guy has insurance, but doesnt want to use it, so when all is said and done, he will have to reimburse my insurance out of his pocket. I'm not using a lawyer, so after my car has been fixed and the Dr. releases us, how do I know what to ask for pain and suffering?

2006-11-18 01:02:04 · 5 answers · asked by tbtt&b 1 in Law & Ethics

there a little_____going to a______when he runs into_____.the little____pulls out___perpper spray and___says "take that you ______ _______. they throw___in the back of the ___ and drive to____to get some______. ___ escapes and kicks them right in the ___ and celebrates by going to a ______ to get a little_____ and live _______ever after

2006-11-18 01:02:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

http://myspace-290.vo.llnwd.net/01425/09/25/1425795290_l.jpg
^BEFORE

http://myspace-818.vo.llnwd.net/01440/81/88/1440728818_l.jpg
^AFTER

ALL I have gotten is negative feedback, but i kind-of like the change
I'm not in love with it, but i dont thinks is horrible.
You're thoughts? Be harsh Im used to it

2006-11-18 01:02:00 · 11 answers · asked by BCDoerrer 2 in Hair

2006-11-18 01:01:55 · 3 answers · asked by Dora K 1 in Small Business

2006-11-18 01:01:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Celebrities