I have had a friend since we were teens, we are now in our 30's, he, his girlfriend and me and my husband have been friends for 14 years.Now they are telling people bad things about me and don't want to hang out. I haven't changed from what I can tell. Now my husband says it is all my fault because they don't like me.they have done this to other friends of theirs before, it's like they always want something new, the grass is always greener thing. We have other friends, I'm not lonely and my husband doesn't have time for people anyway. What are some thoughts as to what could be going on?It seems like such a long friendship to throw away.I am trying not to beat myself up over them because I know they have done it before, but it does hurt. We helped them out a lot over the years. They say I make them feel stupid, how do you MAKE someone feel stupid? could it be they have low self esteem and want low life friends to make them feel better about themselves?
2006-10-17
17:10:54
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