Four months ago I discovered that my husband of five years had an affair. It crushed me. It was a total schock and I am still wondering why it happened. Since the discovery, he is a changed man. He is extremely attentive, very loving and considerate, and pretty much the dream husband. My problem is that I can't let the affair go. Everything reminds me of it. I wonder what went through his mind as he ventured out to act out his deceit. Not only once, but three differnent times. We have two beautiful daughters together. We went to the zoo today and the road signs on the way home reminded me of a time that he had met up with his mistress in the same area the zoo is located. It sent me back to the pain and anger I felt four months ago when I first discovered the affair. I am a forgiving person, but I seem to be obsessing over this one. I need an outsider point of view.
2006-10-14
20:58:26
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LadyLee
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Marriage & Divorce