My girlfriend and I have been together for over 3 years, we are both 22. We just moved in together and because of that, I've started to really think about the future. I want to have kids eventually, probably when I'm in my 30's but I know I eventually want them. My gf doesn't want to have kids, she thinks it is selfish to have kids when there are all these other children up for adoption in this world. She said she wouldn't mind adopting eventually but she doesn't like the idea of having her own kid. I don't want to adopt ever, I would much rather have children of my own. I know we're young but I feel like I might be better off finding a girl that wants to have kids. I love my girlfriend very much and she's my best friend but having kids (or not having kids) can be a deal breaker. If I have to cut it off, I'd rather it be sooner than later, know what I mean? So what should I do? I love her a whole lot but we differ on that one subject.
2006-10-11
05:51:16
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