I have big problems with my gf's ex. Their relationship ended a month ago for reasons totally unrelated to me. However her ex recently texted me and said my gf used to slag me off to her ex and say she wasnt attracted to me and I was boring and she just wanted to use me. The ex also said that my gf and her were still having sex after the relationship ended and spent almost everyday together.
I confronted my gf about this and she said it is all true, but she said and did those things as she wanted to hold onto the friendship she had with her ex and she realises now it was a big mistake.
Her ex is now being nasty to both me and my gf, sending me texts saying "You were always in the back of my head, now I'll be in the back of yours when you picture me giving her the best sex she ever had" and stuff. Thing that hurts me is my gf cares about her a lot and wants a friendship.
What can I say to make my gf see how much it hurts, without her feeling like I'm trying to control her?
2006-10-10
01:32:01
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender