This was me chatting to a girl that on an online chat site called person.com, I’m not sure what to make of this, I am not sure if she wants me to make the first move or not, I am sanza and she is abby, read it and tell me what you think.
Oct 02, 12:34 abby: tell me something why are you so nice i mean you are so sweet.... you are not all about sex and stuff like most guys.... you actually with a brain
Oct 02, 13:19 sanza: thanks for that, well to be honest, i'm human as well n i think about sex all the time, everyone does, but i would rather be in a relationship were me and my partner are emotionally competible, were the relationship is based on the emotional and other things, not how me or my partner perform in bed, the relationships that i've had were all shallow, i just wanna see how it would be like if i become very emotionally involved with someone, u know, i know it sounds weird and it sounds like i'm weak but that's what i wanna experience, i want to jump into the abyss, i want to think about my partner all the time, i want to have sleepless nights b/c of her, i want a person who i can share everything with, the good & the bad, without being afraid that she'll tell everyone about my secrets when we break up, that's what happens these days.
Oct 02, 13:30 sanza: i want to be sandile and not sandile-usher, i don't wanna pretend to be someone i'm not anymore, i want someone who'll accept me 4 me, i'll definetely accept that person, well that's what i've been doing. Yep, that's me abbygal, a hopeless romantic, lol, talking about me, u r a nice person too, i actually like u, u r not the condoscending type, i like that, ur cousin is lucky and ur boyfriend-exboyfriend is loosing out.
07:57 abby: one thing i must let you know is that i dnt think you are weak i just think you are a great guy who cares about peoples feeling and you are a guy who does not jump into a relationship you first learn how the person is like bcoz honetly your sex life will never be great if you dnt connect emotionaly... i know we are all human but it takes a great man to stop himself from having sex or from wanting to talk about sex all the time... i really feel it takes a lot of guts for a guy to open up to a gal... thats why i love chatting to you. and when you answer me you dnt make it short and sweet you put your whole heart into it i really love that about you.. wich ever gal that gets you better treat you right bcoz its very hard to meet guys like you these days everyone just wants to have sex and get babies
08:01 abby: me i dnt really open up bcoz i dnt wana get hurt... you see me im a very analitical person doesn't metter hw small something is i always make sure i know what made you do it... i know when im wrong so i do apologise but some peolpe tend to take me for granted that is when i bcome a very selfish person when people play with my emotions.... other wise i would say im a very nice person who is looking for someone with enough patience to connect with me emotionally b4 we connect physicaly
2006-10-02
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