Hi all,
I need some opinions about friendships which have kind of lapsed since early January, when my dad died. This couple, who were some of the first people I told about it, were to too busy to come to the wake and I’m ok with that. The guy was himself dealing with the loss of his grandma just a few days before my dad passed on, so I kind of knew how he was feeling.
While I have met up with them about 1or 2 times since the wake, they’ve only asked me how I was doing when I called them to see how they were doing. I’ve sent smses on occasion to the guy too over the months, to offer support over his loss. Those 2 times I met up with them it was with other people who didn’t know about dad, so they didn’t ask how I was, or talk about it. I understand.
We last talked 4-5 months ago and besides the smses I sent them each for their birthdays earlier on, and a few phone calls, I don’t have the energy to keep plodding on.
There’s not enough space to write everything, but shd i try again?
2006-09-24
02:58:19
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