I am a decent boy-next-door-looking 22 year old guy. I can be funny if I know you, but am low key and quiet by nature....kinda bookish. Because of this, most of my girlfriends have been out-going and talkative. Most have really picked me up, rather than me picking them. A couple months ago, a friend told me about this episode of 20/20 where some guy claimed that women--dispite the lies they say in public, and to themselves--are attracted to aggressive, confident jerks. He showed that if you are confident, women will even gravitate to men who put them down. I watched the show on my friend's DVR. Afterwards, I spent several weeks pushing myself to be super outgoing and test out the theory. At first to my delight, and then to my disgust, I found it worked. Even if all I did was brag about myself, or be mildly insulting to a female, being hyper masculine and super confident worked. But now it's really saddened me. I want to pull honeys, but respect them too. Please help me understand.
2006-08-03
08:34:59
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