it may sound conceited but i have a feeling my cousin might be jealous of me. she harasses me whenever i'm around her, and makes me feel so uncomfortable that i usually leave the room when she enters. i just feel nervous and awkward and uncomfortable. she gives me the silent treatment all the time, and is always making fun of me-and i don't know why. i'm not a freak or anything, and if i really was, she probably wouldn't be making fun of me for being one. when i asked her if she was jealous she got mad and said no. i told her that i didn't care and she told me that i did care. what's up with that? is she suffering from haterate syndrome or what? or maybe she just picks on me to irritate me?
2006-08-03 08:36:43 · 13 answers · asked by beachgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sure sounds like jealousy to me, as she is acting extremely insecure. Just let that stuff slide off your back though and only treat her nicely. The more you can tolerate her and show compassion to her, the more it will drive her crazy. She sounds like she has issues! Take care and best of luck with her.
2006-08-03 08:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are, but it sound like your cousin is a queen bee. I would recommend reading one of the following to get a better perspective:
Girl Wars: 12 Strategies That Will End Female Bullying by Cheryl Dellasega, Charisse Nixon
OR
Mean Girls Grown Up: Adult Women Who Are Still Queen Bees, Middle Bees, and Afraid-to-Bees by Cheryl Dellasega
2006-08-03 08:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let it bother you.. she sound really immature. what u need to do is try to ignore her, and continue to be a responsible, good kid in front of family and friends, so no matter what she says against u, no one will really believe her. if u act weird or rude, she will use it against u and turn people against u. once u gain everyone's trust, it won't matter what she says; ur actions and deeds show what kind of person u are, and if she is as bratty as u say, i'm sure people around her know she's a gossip.
tip.. don't be nervous or awkward! stand up strong, be confident that you are great. anyone who doesn't like u, so what? don't let them intimidate you. once they see that you don't care, and it doesn't bother you, they'll have to figure out someone else to bother. ur not a freak, ur not weird, there's nothing wrong. she's not a good cousin cuz if she was, she'd try to take care of u as a family member. since she bugs u, ignore. but don't be nervous around her, be strong. give her something to be jealous about!! :)
2006-08-03 08:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. It sounds like she wants a baby and she is having a hard time dealing with it. It is always better to be the bigger person. If you take the high road, you will avoid the retaliation she would throw your way. Anyway, she sounds like she is self centered and she is going to have a rough time when she does actually have a child. When you are pregnant, the attention is all on you. But once that baby arrives, mom no longer exists. If you are not already reasonably well-adjusted, it is a big shock.
2016-03-26 21:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea girl its all about her being jealous of u. I was in da samn stage but with my close friend which we called each other cuzins. u either have wat to cuziin want but can't get or its yo looks in da way u carry yoself. cuz if u've done nothing wrong 2 her or hurt her in any way den she's jealous of u 100%. which is okay cuz just look at it like in a different way maybe u want b so angry but all I did was nod smile n keep movin cuz i know i've done nothing wrong 2 her. u seem like a really nice person n u've done nothing wrong here its yo cuzins n her ways if she have a problem with u den she should com 2 u like family would n talk 2 u. but don't get all worked up over dis see it as a situation dat can n will make u stronger as a person. and u can always turn 2 a best friend of yours fa advice or even a close family member but like I said its really all on yo cuz n her ways in da jealously but hang in there girl yo cuz mey com around if not den jus stay strong smile b happy n keep being u. good luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-03 09:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by chicagodiva08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she makes you feel bad or uncomfortable don't go around her. It's that simple. If she says anything about it to you tell her you don't enjoy her company. Maybe she should treat you the way she would like to be treated!
2006-08-03 08:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems self centred and not worth your while to figure her out. Trust me I have been there with an jealous self centred always right cousin.It has caused nothing but pain so now I just don't have any contact with her
2006-08-03 09:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by mrs_care_graham 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not jealous.....She might be an annoying jerk, but she isn't jealous.
2006-08-03 08:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by cognitively_dislocated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just suck. And your way to conceded
2006-08-03 08:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thank she is jealous off u
2006-08-03 08:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by destiny j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋