Its been 4 years since I talked to my older brother. Him and I at once use to be really close, I was in business with his soon to wife when they met (i introduced them to each other). To make a long story short a very bad business deal went down between my partner and I and my over bearing know it all brother. In the last 4 years I have made attempts to reconcile on a amicable ground for our parents benefit (as this breaks their heart), but to know avail. Now he is getting married and his g/f my ex partner has called after 4 years of not speaking out of the blue to ask me to stand for her (wtf?) my reply was i don't think so, but how about you start with an invite and we will take it from there. Invitations went out and my 2 sons recieved one and not me, my parents are very upset, and when my mom called me upset, asking me to "try again" as my dad says if i don't go he doesn't go. there is so much more to this story. I am looking for others to share their stories or comment on mine
most add that I wrote my brother a long e-mail about what I would like from us in the future and to ask if he wanted to try being civil to eaach other, i made it quite clear, and no answer, also at christmeas dinner he was there as for how unconfotable i was, i stayed walked up to my brother extended my hand and said merry christmas, no action. Also, this bad business deal was alot of my brothers doing (some major back stabbing went on)
2006-06-12
09:51:53
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