ok,im really torn,i have a baby and am living with an abusive husband(hes not abusive to the baby)
hes also not been ''physically'' abusive since she was born
we are very isolated,no friends,family
I know if i dont get out of this soon..idk..i have no quality of life
I know this is not good for the baby,but my only option is to go to a shelter,is that selfish of me?? because,the baby will lose all her toys,and the compforts of a home?
ive heard bad thinhs about shelters and im not sure,if i go
will i be jumping from the frying pan to the fire?
and since hes no longer physically abusive,am i being selfish to put my baby through all this,just becaue i want a better life?
im afraid of the shelters,im also afraid i can no longer survive mentally living with my husband??
btw..he will never change,or go to a counseler or anything like that..I know this cos its been 10 years!!
btw.hes all the family ive ever had(thats one of the reasons i never left earlier)
2007-12-09
16:09:52
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