i've been with my boyfriend nearly 2 years. for our 2 year anniversary, i would really love to do someting very special for him, physically. we've not had sex as i'm catholic and he's been extremely supportive of that (he is agnostic). he's also a bit older than me (he's 28 ; i'm 22). i feel like we wont be married any time soon cuz i'm still living at home and finishing college plus there are a ton of other circumstances etc... so there is no way to shorten the waiting period on the actual sex.
however, it baffles me why oral sex should be wrong. we haven't done it yet but this is mostly due to my upbringing and the fear of it as such. so i was thinking, for the 2nd anniversary, why not do it...? to other catholics out there, why is it a sin in a loving meaningful relationship with a future? why is it even SEX if there is no penetration? my boyfriend is wonderful but he is also just a man. i want so bad to please him.
any openminded non judging people, feel free to comment&help
2007-06-13
15:25:47
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Angie
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