I am a white Pagan woman, and I have a Southern accent, and I live in NYC. I swim three mornings a week. Today it was cold and my hair was still damp, so I twisted the back of my hair up and put a designer scarf over it. I don't like what hats do to my hair. I guess it looked like hijab, even though my bangs were out.
Wow. I got some really hostile stares on the bus. And a man asked, "How *could* you?" He thought I was a convert to Islam. I told him he could think what he wanted, but it's winter, and what I'm wearing on my head doesn't hurt him whether it's for religious reasons or not.
A Muslim co-worker did want to know where I got the cute scarf, though.
Now it's tying my hair back, in a ponytail, and my big bad Vera Bradley scarf won't scare anyone when I go out to lunch today, I bet.
What's the big deal? Do other women (Muslim or not) have experiences like this? Have you ever treated someone like this?
I know I'm ranting, but I want to hear your thoughts.
2007-01-11
02:59:27
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GreenEyedLilo
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