It is not like the church hired me! I certainly don't get a paycheck! I know the verse in the Bible that talks about how men of God should have godly families, but godly does not mean perfect. Nor does it mean that a minister's wife should sing in the choir, teach a Sunday school class, bring the best dish to potluck, etc. I feel so plastic every Sunday, painting on my smile and pretending to be someone I'm not. I have tried to be myself, but all that got me was completely isolated, brought up before personnel committee meetings, my husband's job threatened, and some very rude comments. It is easier to just paint a smile on my face and pretend.
I can't make friends because they assume I am a stereotype, or I can't stand them because they are even worse at painting on their plastic smiles and pretending they are perfect. I am stuck in the middle. I think I am going to minister's wives hell, lol.
I feel isolated, and depressed. Do other minister's wives feel this way? Help?!
2006-08-30
18:37:42
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