A saying about arguments: "The man should apologize, even when the woman is wrong."
In general, I agree with the saying for the more mundane arguments that men and women get into. When the man is wrong, he should apologize. Any man should have the strength of character to admit when he is wrong, and should apologize appropriately.
When the woman is clearly wrong, the man should still apologize. The man needs to allow the woman to gracefully exit the argument without making her feel stupid or belittled or ashamed. The woman should then accept his apology gracefully and not turn his apology into an opportunity to embarrass or ridicule him.
When it is not clear who is wrong, the man should still apologize. Again, after both have spoken their minds, the man should apologize for the argument. The woman should accept his apology gracefully.
Agree or disagree? Why? If a woman, do you find this offensive and patronizing?
2006-10-05
13:13:36
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Gin Martini
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