Don't get me wrong. I'm not ultra-sensitive.
But what if someone consistently refers only to him/herself as if you don't (or didn't) exist? Could it be an oversight on their part? Does such a person feel he/she is being polite by only speaking for him/herself? Or is this self-centeredness when it happens excessively?
I'm referring to instances whereupon it is very clear that the subject matter at hand definitely includes more than just this one person.
For instance, my boyfriend & I always go to church together & his brother-in-law wanted to go- he invited him & then told me, "I invited him to go to church with *me*" (why not us?).
And when recounting a story that happened to both of us, it's "When *I* went to such and such place..."
One instance alone is not much, but when this idiosyncracy happens everyday.. it still seems too petty to bring up. What does it mean and what do you do, if anything?
Wasn't sure how to categorize this.
Thanks.
2006-10-26
07:01:19
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Realmstarr
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