Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - June 2007

I have recently met the love of my life. He is always there for me when I need him, and we have alot of fun. I want this man to bbe my husband. I hope to one day adopt children with him.
My parents are very religious rural people- conservative, Christians. yet, if this man is to be my life partner they should know about it. I want to share my truth with them. I wish I had come out years before. But didn't. I don't want to break their hearts. Is my sharing with them selfish? Should I think about them?

P.S.- I'm 87 years old

2007-06-20 00:32:24 · 10 answers · asked by fatal beauty 1

2007-06-20 00:28:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

what about severely handicapped couples or those with previous history of child abuse?

2007-06-20 00:10:45 · 33 answers · asked by sas 1

I can start having "it" with guys if I want to... I chose, I wasn't born straight or gay, it is my choise...

2007-06-20 00:07:45 · 38 answers · asked by K Assiri 2

...a reason for someone to call it quits with you, when you are the one 'accused' of being a man who tries to take each day as it comes, and not plan too much in advance (when you are never sure what the future holds)?

2007-06-20 00:00:37 · 6 answers · asked by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6

I just heard that the marriage bill for NY just passed some stage of government (didn't catch the whole story and its the only one they havn't repeated 20 times go figure lol) if i hear it again i will add details. but what do you think this means are we actually going to get the same rights soon?

2007-06-19 22:58:41 · 5 answers · asked by bookluvr315 4

She lost custody of her son in 1993 to her mother, who claimed because she was a lesbian she was an unfit mother, the Virginia courts agreed. I am just curious as to what kind of relationship the family has now.

2007-06-19 20:46:52 · 2 answers · asked by much_brighter_days 2

2007-06-19 20:37:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can anyone give me any arguments why gay marriage should be banned, excluding religious ones?

2007-06-19 18:27:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm single now just broke up with my gf of 5 months she was the best but she blow it by being such a psycho so we broke up but we have talked and she says she's sorry and that she won't doit again but she's the jealouse type she doens't want me talking to girls that r gay or bi I could only talk to straight girls so whene she found out that I would put stuff in here like where can I find girls and she would get mad she would even start fights with other girls over me belive me she's hot but I don't think I would take it she even get's jealouse over my cousin don't know what to do and if I don't go back with her where is the right place too go look for gilrs my age or should I go back with it plz help me need others opini... my friends tell me not to go back with her but I really dig her I don't love her but I like her alot so what should I do ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh plz

2007-06-19 18:12:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known I was bisexual for a long time, over half my life. Tonight my boyfriend and I were talking and the subject came up. I decided that it was the right time to tell him when he asked me why I believed people were their orientation from birth.
I cried because it was pretty overwhelming, and he told me that he loved me just the same, but that homosexuality was a choice and a sin.
I just need help convincing him that I would never choose to be persecuted all my life for who I have feelings for.
Does anyone have an easy way to put it to him, to help him understand? He's been a Christian all his life, so he's pretty set in his beliefs, so I need some good points.

I am not leaving him - that is not an option.


Thank you all (:

2007-06-19 17:49:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-19 17:14:43 · 25 answers · asked by robd 1

what is the best way i can come out as a bisexual to a same gender crush without telling them i have a crush on them, but making it also easy for them to understand as a friend?

i know it kinda sounds stupid, but im also in high school.

and if it helps, i don't expect a negative reaction, but probably an incredibly awkward one.

2007-06-19 16:35:36 · 8 answers · asked by angie 3

I think that for as much progress as we've made in the last 20 years, it's going to take about 20 more... so my conjecture is 2023.

But in my state, gay marriage is prohibited by a constitutional amendment, and there's no telling how long it would take to change that, even if the feds ok'd it. Maybe 15 years? So, who knows, maybe I will be able to marry by the time I'm 50.

What do you think?

2007-06-19 15:57:47 · 14 answers · asked by Rat 7

Best friends? Casual friends? A gay or lesbian cousin? Total strangers?

2007-06-19 15:55:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-19 15:43:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wondering.

2007-06-19 14:22:43 · 24 answers · asked by ? 6

2007-06-19 14:17:17 · 15 answers · asked by dulce179 1

I'm in favour of same-sex marriages. I'm no major activist or anything, just think gays should have the same rights as straight people. Would I not been labelled gay or something for having this view?

I am hetrosexual, some college 'fun and games' confirmed it.

2007-06-19 13:26:12 · 40 answers · asked by Salsoul 2

I know that there is strength in numbers, but is not the whole purpose of banding together to attain rights for the individual?
If a group remains and begins to direct how its members behave, does not the individual lose strength rather than gain it? And anyone who may have a disagreement with the group, just as i, a bisexual woman, disagree with some gay issues, is outcast. And is not the group easily swayed by its most radical members?

2007-06-19 13:11:35 · 11 answers · asked by Lil Greek Girl 3

if so what was the hold up if they were born this way? i heard gay ppl are born gay. If you say denial.....would not it been signs for the ones that showed no signs?

2007-06-19 12:56:28 · 18 answers · asked by pebbles 2

Be honest have you, have you tried, have you thought about it? I have at least one time in my life thought about it.

2007-06-19 12:47:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was always curios and i thought i would ask. Is it the same as the way i feel for a girl? I mean i was noticing the opposite sex since the second i came out the wound. I mean, are gay people born like this?
im noone to judge, so can i know?

2007-06-19 12:44:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My question to you is "When did you Choose to be straight? You didn't choose to be straight, you were born that way. You like the opposite sex not because of a choice, it was right for you. Do you agree with this or disagree.

2007-06-19 12:43:14 · 24 answers · asked by You can call me Rob 6

[Oh, that censor!]

I moved to St. Louis, Missouri, less than four months ago. And I don't know hardly anyone here, but I'm remembering some gay times (as it were) with my friends in San Francisco before I met My Steve. Steve liked to keep his distance from gays so as not to be hit on, since he was rather ideal "gay bait." But he committed suicide over a year ago, and it's time for me to re-assert my own style: Big Mama who wants friends to hang out with.

How do I break into the scene in St. Louis, or more specifically University City? I don't have a car, and don't even know how to drive, so I must plan my outings with care. No "just go hang out" will work unless it's on the Loop, since I can walk there. I don't feel like I can even identify the gay bars, let alone walk in and get a rousing chorus of "Hello, Dolly!"

2007-06-19 12:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by auntb93 7

bypass a lot of the 'junk mail' on here.

2007-06-19 11:37:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you have more than one, plz give to me as many as you can.

Thanks!

2007-06-19 10:49:33 · 9 answers · asked by hungry all the time 5

Why do so many heterosexual people think they know more about gay sex than we glbt people do? How do they know?

2007-06-19 10:32:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

But that the choice was about being homosexual and choosing to have sex. (This kinda of reiterates the 'love the sinner not the sin' theory.) But do you think that having sex is that much of a choice? To me it is a natual occurrence.
I no more think that sex is about choice than eating, drinking,sleeping or urinating...They are all simple biological functions and drives. To me telling me not to have sex is telling me to think about anything except an elephant.(of course everyone imagines an elephant at this point).
And BTW how many straight people ever give up sex because 'it is wrong'--that they are unmarried and the bible says that it is wrong? I concede maybe a few nuns and,( well, priests have certainly shown what an artificial environment can do to people) might have--but they hardly lead normal lives.
... Anyone agree? or disagree?

2007-06-19 09:53:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-19 08:58:36 · 23 answers · asked by TRACER ™ 6